british virgin islands 06

Paul and I just returned from our trip to two of the British Virgin Islands: Virgin Gorda and Tortola. We were blessed to attend Detria and Darrin's wedding at one of the most breathtaking treasures in the world and to spend six days together... alone. Our trip was tranquil, renewing and poetic. We were overwhelmingly aware of God's presence and favor in each moment. It was precious... a vital experience we will always cherish.

A fire and outtage in the Houston control tower left us hovering above the airport for an hour. Rather than enjoying a barbeque with good friends in paradise that night, we were stranded in San Juan. To our surprise, the change in plans actually turned out to be a blessing. We stayed in a great hotel on the beach and spent some much needed time together. We had good conversation, good dinner, and even turned $5 into $20 on the nickle slots! It was a great way to start the trip.

After some drama in the airport the following morning, and a goodwill gesture by a pilot, we boarded a TINY 10-passenger plane and headed for Virgin Gorda. You can imagine the emotion of finally joining our friends and the awe in the moment we finally arrived at Baraka Point.

Baraka Point

The main Villa

First, we were escorted by Darrin and Detria to our private villa, the Mandarin. Then, we met up with the family: Leah (Detria's sister), Victoria (Detria's mom), James (Detria's dad), Noah (Detria's son), BJ (Detria's youngest brother), Jada (BJ's daughter), Lauren (Darrin's daughter), and Fran (Darrin's Mom). We were also greeted with blended fruity drinks by Aaron and Kim, the villa managers, chef and masseuse. It didn't take long to kick back and relax.

Paul enjoying the view from our private deck

That view I was telling you about

A view of the main villa from our deck

Sunday afternoon, we all went for a hike to the top of Gorda Peak, which was memorable on a number of levels. We were surrounded by lush green shrubs and trees, and we made the trek with crabs and lizards that had traveled all the way from the sea. It was inspiring to watch Leah, with just a cane as her eyes, attempt what seemed impossible. She was led by her big sister and trailed by her mom... "big rock to your left"... "skinny steps just ahead..." "watch that branch above you..." Witnessing the teamwork of this threesome is one of my favorite memories from the trip.

Hiking to Gorda Peak

Monday evening, twenty of us witnessed the sacred event that took place on this point kissed by God, surounded by the sapphire sea. Detria was stunning. Darrin was smitten. The ceremony was simple and serene. It was an invaluable opportunity for me to reflect on a 15-year friendship with Detria, to celebrate the blessing of my own marriage and to thank God for the gift of my best friend and lifetime companion, Paul. The evening ended with 14 of us sitting around a candelit table draped in crisp white linens. It was the most intimate reception I've been a part of. Both Paul and I were honored to listen and share as we discussed our hopes for the future of this marriage. Dinner was impeccable. The company and conversation were better.

A few more snapshots from the day...

Me and Detria

The fam - (l to r) BJ, Leah Darrin, Detria, James, Victoria
Lauren, Noah and Jada

Darrin's cousin, Desiree, taking it all in

The following morning, we bid Baraka Point and our friends adieu and headed for "The Baths," where we snorkled and swam with fish in crystal blue water fortified by sandy white beaches and gigantic boulders.

The Baths

We borded a ferry that afternoon and spent our final day and a half in Tortola. We toured the island in a Landcruiser, spent an afternoon sipping cocktails and soaking in the sun at Smuggler's Cove, and continued our tradition of fine dining at the Bananakeet (it was SO good, we ate their twice!).

Sunset at Long Bay

Our last night, we strolled on the beach and talked about what's been and what will be. It was yet another precious moment that will stick with me forever. In just six days Paul and I were transformed. We are better and closer because of this trip. God spoke to us and cared for us and our kids while we were away. It was monumental.
It was perfect.

"Above all things, have fervent love for one another, for love will cover a multitude of sins." - 1 Peter 4:7